Currently on holidays but thought I'd post an update on how things are going.
My Birth Mother
My birth mother and I still remain close and we have had long heart felt chats about our feelings and have been there for each other. Having my birth mother there makes everything feel so nice.
Big sister and I remain as close as ever. I do try to not over crowd her and let her and her partner have as much time together as possible. A fear of mine is something that happens to stop is being close or that we drift.
Heather continues to refuse to speak to me. I have to start believing I'm never going to have any kind of relationship with her.
Andrew and I were getting close but since his holiday he seems to have backed off. Lesley continues to be standoffish and does not contact me. I've decided not to chase them. If they don't want me in their lives then to hell with them, they know where I am.